Thursday, March 31, 2011

The Final Phase Begins

Friday, February 25 was a day we met with the whole spectrum of emotions.  Some were in tears because leaving was like tearing part of themselves apart.  Others were torn between wanting to stay and wanting to leave.  Still others of us were thankful for the time we had been able to enjoy as a family and for all the memories revisited, but we were ready to be home.  Through it all, though, we somehow kept the laughter going.

One of dad and mom's guards brought his family to greet that morning because his son was born on the same day as Micah..  It was a precious moment, a connection. 


My mom, ever the teacher!  The kids really got into the puzzle once they figured out what was supposed to happen.

After lunch everyone on the compound, including some who had come specifically to say good-bye, gathered around the vans for prayer.  It is a tradition with my parents that whatever vehicle and all going with it are prayed over before leaving for a trip.  It is a prayer for protection but also a blessing on those leaving and staying.

Our drive to the capital was not without adventure!  We stopped for supper around 4 on the outskirts of the city because there wasn't much to eat on the road to the airport.  Dad's chicken was rotten (as in you could smell it fermenting on his plate) and none of us were sure if we'd get sick from our own meals. 

There is lots of construction on the way to the airport, through the city.  Now, you have to understand that people there put such formalities as lines on the road, but understanding and and following those lines and signs is beyond their comprehension.  It's just not an important part of the culture. 

Signs to tell you to slow down?!?  Nope--logs are far better understood.

We hit a pretty major go-slow.  Some, like this taxi driver, decided the best way to get out of it would be to turn around
in the middle of the congested traffic and drive over the pile of dirt to the left.  He didn't make it over the first time and I'm pretty sure it took three times before he finally reached the top.
While we were sitting (more like parked) in the go-slow, we kept noticing cars diving out and driving down the adjacent road.  We couldn't see where the road went, all we could see was the miles of parked cars ahead of us.  So dad and the driver decided to take a chance and join the escapees.

A couple miles down the road we came upon this scene.  No kidding, there were probably close to 20 "lanes" (term used VERY loosely) trying to merge into the equivalent of four lanes.

It was unreal!  We only saw one "accident" of one car scraping another.  It was only God's protection that kept us from scraping the cars on either side of us several times.  These cars in the picture are way too far apart to do the chaos justice.

Looking behind at what we just maneuvered through.  We came through the opening on the left.

We had just pulled through and I was breathing a sigh of relief and thanks when I happened to notice this lorry along the side of the road.  The saying on its side (Trust In God) seemed so fitting for what we had just come through.

We were through the go-slows, right?  HA HA!  Thankfully this one was a piece of cake--it was only five lanes trying to merge into one or two.

I, personally, was thrilled to see the sign for the airport.  I am such a fool some times.
We got to the airport about 6pm for our 10pm flight.  Unfortunately, I can't show you any pictures of the airport and our experience within because they would have taken my camera away if I had tried taking pictures.  Here's what happened.

The plan was to leave our carry-on luggage with mom in the waiting lounge while we checked our bags (a method we had used for years).  Once everything was checked in we would come back out and hang out for a couple more minutes before heading through security and emigration. 

The path through:
1. Show your passport to the police officer sitting at a desk.
2. Put your luggage on the x-ray machine and pick it up on the other side. 
3. Walk to the seven or eight agents on the far right side of the room, show them your passports and talk to them a minute.
4. Weigh your bags and receive your ticket saying how much weight you had.
5. Go the metal tables and have every single one of your bags opened and looked through.  (Remember there were 12 of us flying out--imagine the number of bags we had.)
6. Stand in line and then proceed to another agent at a desk, show your passport, and be told that you needed a special sticker for your carry-ons.  (Aaron and I had to repeat the process with all our carry ons, no one else was told they had to but Ibrahim worked his captain magic and got everyone else the needed stickers just in case.)
7. Proceed to check-in counter, deposit bags and get boarding passes.

At this point we all went back out to Dad and Mom who were still waiting in the lounge and hung out for about a half hour before traversing phase two of the maze.

About 8:15pm we all said good-bye to Dad and Mom and headed through:
1. Policeman outside checking all passports.
2. X-ray carry-ons
3. Emigration--check passports and emigration paperwork.
4. Another booth but I don't remember what it was for--but they checked passports again.
5. Up the escalator (waving good-bye to the parents who were standing in the upstairs lounge watching our progress)
6. Through X-ray machine #2
7. Stand in line to have our passports and boarding passes checked again.
8. Have our carry-ons thoroughly searched and put on the benches behind the agents.
9. Patted down before retrieving our carry-on luggage and finally being at the gate before boarding the airplane.

I had just enough time to change out of my skirt, into jeans, and change Brandon out of his dirty shorts (from crawling all over the floor while waiting in lines) into long pants.  As I was coming back out of the bathroom they called for families with small children to board the plane and EVERYONE rushed into line.  As we're getting into line I looked over and Al and Rachel, who were the last of our group, were just getting patted down.  We boarded the plane around 9:15/9:30 pm.

Brandon slept over half of the 12 hour flight back to Atlanta and at the time I thought it was just from sheer exhaustion of the late flight and the busyness of the past two weeks.  We found out later, however, that he was already getting sick.  But that's for another post.

Good-night.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Family Protraits

Thursday evening I took family portraits.  I'm quite happy with them for most part.

Mom bought all her grandkids the same type of shirt.  We took this on Sunday, earlier in the week.

Dad and Mom--where it all started

The Horlings Family

Cal, Kinsley, Christel

Bryan

Al, Rachel

Micah, Bryan (B2), Sara, Brandon (My dad took this picture)

Stacey, Aaron

Grandpa and Grandma with the grandkids (Brandon, Micah, Kinsley)

The whole family!  (A friend came to take this picture for us.)

Just for fun--I took this within minutes of leaving for the airport.  Thanks Christel, for a great idea.
Happy Wednesday!

Winding Down

Our time together in the country of our youth was winding down.  Thursday was used as a day for last-minutes and finish-ups. 

Aaron, Stacey and I did some last minute shopping.

Rachel, Al and Christel went back to the zoo.

Bryan finished the rocking chair make-over.

There's just something so right about having your mom cut your hair!


Brandon's new friend came to play soccer and hang out with him for a while.


Rebel joined one of our last tea times together.  (I forgot to tell you something very important, Mom, the other day
when you asked if Brandon remembered or still talked out our trip.  Brandon has named one of the birds on his wall "Rebel".)

The biggest job of the day was getting two of these HUGE water tanks out from behind Dad's office building.



I'm pretty sure every man on the compound at the time was conscripted to help.





BEWARE of your garden/produce fields when the Horlings are around--they will empty it out with their foraging!

Mom got in as much grandkid time as possible.

And finally, I took family photos.

The evening was spent packing and sitting around the table playing games and talking.
Blessings

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Spectrum Day

Wednesday, February 23, held a spectrum of activities.  In the morning Mom, Stacey and I went fabric shopping--I absolutely LOVE shopping for fabric there.  The colors are amazing as is the variety of patterns/pictures printed on the fabric.  Let's just say I brought back lots of fabric for various projects I have in mind.
You can't see inside, but every wall is lined from floor to ceiling with fabric. 

While we were shopping some stayed home to work on vehicles, work on the rocker, play games, and take care of kiddos.
Grandpa on the floor is ALWAYS a good time!


After lunch and a nap we all headed to Hillcrest for Rachel's lecture.  She gives a lecture to students and the community, whoever wants to listen, just about every time she visits.  This time she used her dive on the sunken ship in Ghana as a basis for teaching how different disciplines work together and not as separate entities in the real world.  (I also must note and brag a little bit.  Since this lecture Rachel has defended her thesis and been renamed Dr. Rachel Horlings!)


Brandon thoroughly enraptured by the lecture.

No visit with Grandma Horlings would be complete without her telling the candle story several times, usually right before bed.  I love how Brandon and Micah both got so into her expressions they started mimicking them.



In the evening, after the kids were in bed, we had a good old fashion taffy pull.  Have you ever been to one?  They are a blast!  Our friends Phillip and Chris came to join in the fun.  We used to have taffy pulls as part of birthday celebrations or just to have our friends come hang out.  The best part is seeing all the different facial expressions when people first pick up the hot taffy and start pulling.  Hot taffy is liable to get anyone dancing and singing in outrageous ways!



Unfortunately I didn't get any real good ones of people dancing since I was laughing too hard.

Have a good Tuesday.

Shock

So often there are times I am amazed and excited at how God works, to see his handywork.  Then there are times like today I'm stunned and just don't see His purpose.

Cheryl Bratt, the wife of Jim Bratt, was taken to the hospital Sunday night with pneumonia.  He body became septic from it and she passed away last evening.  They still had two children at home (a couple in college), she was on the Christian school board, taught at LC for a while, she worked hard with the hispanic community in this area (using what she learned from the years they were missionaries in Bolivia)...and suddenly God says it's time to come home?!?!  When there are still so many who need to know Christ's love, why would God take away someone who was such a strong proclaimer of his gospel and grace?

I guess to remind us that he is still God and his timing is perfect and not our own.  Yet his grace is sufficient.

May the Bratt family know his sovereign precense today in a real way.

Monday, March 28, 2011

Going to the Zoo, Zoo, Zoo...

That was the song Rachel sang all Tuesday morning until she walked into the zoo.  For Rachel, a visit is not complete unless she visits the zoo several times. 

Unfortunately, because of all the unrest, people haven't been visiting the zoo, thus the zoo hasn't had very much money coming in and the animals looked extremely scrawny from the lack of food.  The hyenas were so hungry they scarfed down the peanuts we brought.  The lions especially looked very scrawny.  Monkeys were stuffing peanuts in their mouths before the other monkeys in the cage could steal them away.  But the animals were still a good reminder of the amazingly creative God we have.



The chimps are some of the favorite animals because they love to interact.  The funniest experience we had was when everyone was sitting around watching them (top right) and all of a sudden one chimp starting spitting.  First he spit right at Cal and then proceeded to intentionally try to spit on each person sitting there.  I've never seen my family move so fast.  We were in tears we were laughing so hard!





The camel wanders the zoo grounds.  Stacey wasn't so thrilled with him following her around, and usually Ibrahim gets spit on as well.  Somehow, probably because they have the food, Rachel and Christel are favorites.

Brandon would look at the animals for a second but then go right back to climbing all the wonderful rocks around the area.

Top: This monkey was so sad he just layed down the whole time we were there.
Bottom: That play set has been there since before I was in school!  Probably wouldn't pass any
safety tests.

Micah and Kinsley had enough!  It's a good thing daddys are so comfortable.

Brandon was THRILLED with the old train.


Shopping at the traders.
Kinsley was pretty tuckered out after all the fun.

After going home for lunch and a rest, we went to Rueben's house for supper. Rueben is one of dad's retired drivers who was very instrumental in our lives growing up, especially when it came to learning how to drive.  It was a privilege to be invited to his house for supper.

Oops, forgot to bring toys for the kids so Aunty Rachel made a paper boat and Uncle Bryan kept him busy being "stuck".

Keeping the kids entertained.  What kind of parents would give their kid a Malt?!? ;)
Bottom Right: Sometimes chairs aren't so sturdy and if you sit on them the wrong way, even these new ones, they will collapse underneath you.  Shortly after Al had this happen to him, mine collapsed as well.  It was pretty funny!

Tuwo da Miya--YUM!  Making my mouth water just looking at it.

Outside Rueben's new house.

Rueben and his wife with dad and mom.
It was another busy day filled with old and new memories.
Blessings